It is true that “Woman listens 50%, understands 20% but speaks 200%”. Though being a woman myself is not a very good idea to agree to something like this still truth cannot be denied. Now, when it comes to men, I feel at times and I am sure many of you will agree that they hardly listen to anything but still understand it all. Well, the fact is they don’t understand but pretend to understand it all. This is the most pissing off nature they possess. Consequently, they do not remember anything on this earth except, the lingerie the slim girl wears on that TV commercial or the last time his wife said “I am in a dirty mood today :P...so should we....”
Here are a few things which can help married men on earth to manage their married life. Remember, your lady doesn’t want much in life. Trivial things matter for her may be merely, you calling her ‘girl’ even if she is 35 can turn her on.....
Commitment
Did you promise her a dinner on this weekend? Or did you promise her you would accompany her to her favourite uncle’s place? Remember, these things may not be important for you but are really close to her heart. She already made plans on Monday for Friday evening regarding what she will wear, which hair clip she will wear and which clutch she will carry. So, if she comes to know that you don’t remember anything on Thursday, be prepared for her bonkers look and dare not say “This is called Shaadi (marriage).”
Food and Beverages
Remember the last time you went to eat out and she told you that she loved Pineapple raita with Butter Naan and Chicken. The reason for telling was not that you should also start loving it. It was told so that next time when you are out, you should order it for her. For a woman, these small things matter a lot as they show her how much you care and respect her taste. Believe me, that a time will come when you yourself will not be able to have Butter Naan and Chicken without Pineapple raita and things will become easy for you and lovable for her.
The best thing in woman is that even if you do something for her repeatedly, she falls in love with you repeatedly, On the contrary, for you guys, it may become a developed ‘habit or duty’. So, remember to order Virgin Mojito if she loves it with KFC’s luscious chicken.
Appraisal
There may be a norm of yearly or half yearly appraisals in your office, however, your wife needs it monthly. Do not forget to do that on one of those Saturday nights. The venue is your bedroom with mute TV which may help her if she is pointed out for something negative. Remember, that shouting on her may not be the only solution. Appraisal with her means you would start with all good things she has done for your family. It is her duty to satisfy your parents and keep them happy but still she wants to be appreciated right from the beginning, the day she came in her dad’s hands. So, she is a princess in her own way and thus working at home may not be her cup of tea always (especially if she is working).
Thereafter, once she becomes happy with the good stuff, telling negatives in a sandwiched manner may help her accept your blames in a positive way.
There may be a lot more. But let me know if you like the post so that we can discuss more. However, I feel for you guys too. So, soon the post will be about “Things men want from their Wives :P, though not much.
